The things people say…sometimes can be misunderstood…and other times misconstrued…and by the time things get sorted out…feelings are hurt beyond repair…but that’s not how it’s always got to be…when things get confusing try another way to explain the things you were trying to convey…
We get overwhelmed at times…and people sometimes get frustrated…when others don’t understand their point of view…but don’t have the time to listen…or sometimes the other side of the equation may seem less important…and it may get minimized…but it doesn’t always have to be that way…
When two sides listen to each other…it can lead to healing for both people…and even clear the air…when the waters get choppy…when the way seems less than ideal…when the only side that is known is the only side that you want others to see…because to listen to both sides could make you look bad…
Try this another way…through disagreement, try listening more…instead of insisting on being listened to…try being the listener…the other person may have a perspective…that you may have never thought of…and sometimes the view changes when your stance does…